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An antidotes to dissatisfaction

Everybody is familiar with the feeling that things are not as they should be.  That you're not successful enough.  Your relationships not satisfying enough.  That you don't have the things you crave.  A chronic dissatisfaction that makes you look outwards with envy  and inwards with disappointment.  Pop culture, advertising, and social media made this worse  by reminding you that aiming for anything less than your dream job is a failure,  you need to have great experiences constantly,  be conventionally attractive, have a lot of friends,  and find your soulmate, and that others have all of these things,  and are truly happy.  And of course, a vast array of self-improvement products  implies that it's all your fault for not working hard enough on yourself.  In the last two decades, researchers have been starting to  investigate how we can counteract these impulses.  The field of positive psychology emerged....

I am not sure!

Is it really a RED color? or am I the only person who sees "this" object like this? Does everybody see the objects as I see? What if I am the only person who has been manipulating by the rest of the world?  What if it does not really exist at all? What if, it just an illusion and what I have seen was just a forgery ?   It's maybe the symptoms of feeling loneliness. Anyway, sometimes it feels good but mostly it kills.   This is just a teaser question my brain asks me. Every day and second it asks me so many bizarre questions like this. It's really hard to manifest my thoughts as it runs in my mind. It's really hard to catch and stitch on paper or on a computer's note.    I am not sure whether this statement is correct or not? I presume, we have to have the courage to live with ourselves, alone. I mean to say we must have the guts to live within ourselves. Living alone is really hard. It is really hard to deal with our own minds, maybe that's why we ofte...

What is Maturity? And how matured "you" are?

Maturity is when you stop trying to change people and instead focus on changing yourself. Maturity is when somebody hurts you and you try to understand their situation instead of trying to hurt them back. Maturity is when you accept people for who they are. Maturity is when you understand that everyone is right in their own perspective. Maturity is when you realize that nothing is more important in this world than you and your family. Maturity is when you understand that whatever you do, you do for your own peace. Maturity is when you stop proving to the world how intelligent you are. Maturity is when you focus on the positives in people. Maturity is when you do not seek approval from others. Maturity is when you stop comparing yourself to others. Maturity is when you are at peace with yourself. Maturity is when you can differentiate between Need and Want, and you can let go of your wants. Maturity is when you stop attaching Happiness to material things. Maturity is when you learn to L...

The intricacy

What's your opinion or understanding regarding the existence of 'humans' beings? Have you ever think about our beginning-- the early stage or how "we; life" had originated? Is it solely the  serendipity  of mother nature or the plan of someone else outside playing the role of a god?  We often bring god while we quagmired of our thoughts regarding the existence and the complicacy of body engineering inside us. Besides, it sounds like escaping from the truth; whether it is the accidental origin or the proper plan of someone else.  First, let's take a scenario where all the creatures are being created accidentally. If we calculate what would be the 'literal' number in the probability? Would it be like "0.0000000000000.........." millions of zeros and 1? Okay, let's assume that it is true all the animals, plants, and the whole ecosystem has existed haphazardly.  Do you understand so far what I mean?  If not, close your eyes and think about t...

Is happiness an elusive quest?

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I found a large number of youngsters are quagmired into the way of getting happiness. Where the actual happiness is located? Why it is so difficult to understand and get the ultimate pleasure? How can we get happiness and perpetuate it? I may have inadequate experience and knowledge to answer these questions, but I revealed the logic which I have experienced so far. You should have a very good understanding-power to grasp my feelings and thoughts which I really want to express. Although human beings are becoming soo intelligent and smarter than any other creatures lots of people have ruminating to find happiness and they could not be able to find out the ultimate source of happiness. The experience, being financially stronger and weaker, had taught me quixotic knowledge. It gives me a lot to know about life and leads me to find out the right pathway to get into abundant happiness--by the way this is still inadequate experience and knowledge to answer, however, still better tha...